Muddy Boots
Last Post 05 Jun 2011 01:19 PM by AZAllen. 6 Replies.
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*spinner*User is Offline New Poster New Poster Send Private Message Posts:188 *spinner*
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02 Jun 2011 08:28 PM
    I need to give a little background to begin the story. Recently I have been doing lots of presentations at schools to encourage young people to take up fishing. Along the way I was asked to speak at some nursing homes also. I have spoke at 5 now and have a couple more scheduled. My wife use to work at a nursing home and she thought it was a good thing for the retired folks. She called it bringing the trout stream to them.

    I spoke at a nursing home this morning. The place I was to speak was the chapel area. I always go early to my presentations to make sure everything is set up properly. When I arrived today I went directly to the chapel. The power point equipment was all set up. There was one resident in the chapel. Her name is Alma. She was quite talkative and she gave me some family history.

    Alma started out talking to me complaining that my presentation was getting in the way of her time to pray. I explained to her that I was giving a presentation about trout fishing. She said: "I had my fill of anything fish related from my husband." He died 12 years ago. He was a crazy fisherman. He went out every moment he could fishing. Alma told me "No thanks" and she wasn't going to sit in on the fishing show.

    I really wanted her to see my presentation. I told her that it wasn't only about fishing. There were wildflowers and many beautiful outdoor photos in the show. I worked on her for about 20 minutes and she finally gave in. She shared with me why she had such a dislike for fishing. When she and her husband were first married they were kind of poor. They lived on wild game and anything that swam.

    Her husband Albert would come home from fishing and walk all over the house with his muddy boots. Fishing meant relaxation for Albert but it meant work her. She would have to clean the house after his nonsense. He cleaned the fish right on the kitchen counter and made one heck of a mess. Alma was always happy when he brought home trout instead of pike because pike meant scales and they were all over the kitchen. He cleaned them and she would always have to follow behind him and clean the sink and the floors.

    By the time he was done cleaning the fish and traipsing outside he was tired and he would just put those muddy boots anywhere he pleased. Fishing equaled mess in her mind. He had asked her numerous times to go along with him. She had gone with him a couple times when they were first married. It just wasn't her cup of tea. Fishing meant wood ticks and usually she ended up muddy and wet.

    She said she ate so many fish through the years she thought she might even grow fins. Alma was a tough sell and was sneering most of the first few moments of my presentation. I directed my attention to the other residents that were watching and made eye contact with them more than Alma. About half way through the presentation I noticed something really odd. Alma's facial expression had changed to a big smile and she was hanging on each word and photo. Near the end she changed her facial expression again. She was wiping away tears and the aides asked her if she wanted to go back to her room. She responded with a resounding "NO".

    My presentation was over and she sat there while I straightened things up and helped put away some chairs. I went over and sat by her and we talked again. She was still weepy. She asked if I had anymore fishing stories I would share with her. I talked to her until it was time for her to go to lunch. She thanked me for coming and aides were wheeling her away and she looked me right in the eye and tears were flowing and she said: "What I wouldn't give for just one more time to clean up that old fool’s muddy boots from my kitchen floor."
    jtaylor23User is Offline Advanced Poster Advanced Poster Send Private Message Posts:518 jtaylor23
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    02 Jun 2011 10:36 PM
    *spinner* that is a awsome story !!!most of us can relate to that...when i'm out fishing i think of some family members that i would love to go fishing one more time.......JOHN
    retired-psgUser is Offline Veteran Poster Veteran Poster Send Private Message Posts:1321 retired-psg
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    03 Jun 2011 09:56 AM
    Yes we live and learn and then sometimes those memoiries we thought were bad turn out to be some of the best we've had!!!!!


    VietNam vet, ex Deputy Sheriff SCCSD and Retired Army all around good guy hiding out in Wisconsin
    bpetersenUser is Offline Veteran Poster Veteran Poster Send Private Message Posts:1254 bpetersen
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    03 Jun 2011 01:05 PM
    some of our fondest Angling memories are of people in our lives who have passed on or in some cases passed us by. I can relate to that story. the things my dad used to do when we were out fishing seemed so annoying at the time but I would give almost anything to just experience them once more.
    Fishing: The art of loitering in or near a body of water. Utah fisherman. lifer since 99
    retired-psgUser is Offline Veteran Poster Veteran Poster Send Private Message Posts:1321 retired-psg
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    03 Jun 2011 08:17 PM
    Yup I'm with ya on that I'd really like to have my Dad back also!!!!


    VietNam vet, ex Deputy Sheriff SCCSD and Retired Army all around good guy hiding out in Wisconsin
    the rod tosserUser is Offline Veteran Poster Veteran Poster Send Private Message Posts:1489 the rod tosser
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    05 Jun 2011 10:02 AM
    great read
    Take a kid fishing , If the fish aint biting entertain them. Photobucket
    AZAllenUser is Offline Veteran Poster Veteran Poster Send Private Message Posts:2496 AZAllen
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    05 Jun 2011 01:19 PM
    An excellent story.
    NAFC, NAHC, NRA, SASS, Viet Nam Vet. Bullhead City, AZ
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